Okay so I'm not going into details because it's too long and I don't have time. But what's been on my mind recently are all the girls I've met recently who have dated my ex-boyfriends. Can I just tell you...I count myself lucky to have been attractive to the same guys who get to date these wonderful ladies.
Too often I think women get really catty and jealous when confronted with their arch enemies. As one of my ex's can attest (as he signed onto my Facebook account and stalked my chat conversations long after we broke up), my favorite people in the world are not naturally inclined to be the females that used to date my favorite boys. But why not?
I mean, seriously. We at least have one thing in common--that we broke up with the guy. On top of that, the guy was attracted to something in us that probably made us similar. In each instance, I've bumped into my ex-boyfriend's ex's and have LOVED them. Seriously, they are the most remarkable women.
One of them remembered my name, what I was studying, and my future goals from meeting me a year ago when she dated my ex. Another one of them invited me to her wedding group on Facebook. Another one called me her friend and suggested that we are so much alike. In every single case where I've actually gotten to know them, I am blown away.
Who are my heroes? My ex-boyfriends' ex-girlfriends. Hands down.
